Why We Pick The Mates We Do

$20
English Softcover

Why We Pick The Mates We Do
(2 Audio CDs)

You can now listen to Anne’s book Why We Pick The Mates We Do. Perfect for driving!

$20
2 Audio CDs

The Selection Test^™
(Stand-alone Test)

This is a stand-alone version of Anne Teachworth’s famous Selection Test^™

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The Selection Test^™ Packet

Anne Teachworth
Director of the Gestalt Institute of New Orleans/New York and author of Why We Pick The Mates We Do

Learn more about Anne Teachworth.

Why We Pick The Mates We Do is a 252 page book written by Anne Teachworth. It contains a step-by-step program to discover your hidden Inner Couple Programming.

It shows how to improve the relationship you are already in, or if you are already single, how to select a better partner for your next relationship. The book includes the complete Selection Test and effective reimprinting exercises for you to do alone or with your partner… You’ll love the homework!

The Selection Test^™

The easy-as-pie 10 Minute Selection Test^™ will show you why you’ve been magnetically drawn to wrong partners in the PAST and help you change your attraction pattern in the FUTURE. In addition…

Think about it: Do you want to meet the perfect mate for you? Or do you want to improve the relationship you’re already in? …or get married and live “Happily Ever After”?

You will learn how to BREAK FREE from your faulty relationship compass of the PAST and redirect your attraction antenna to the signals that will steer you in the direction of your happiness.
You will learn how to “tune into” your perfect mate and “tune out” the blaring discord that your compulsive relationship mind has produced for you in the past.
You will learn how to change your “instinctive attraction pattern” and stop the cycle of Dead-End relationships.

And let’s not forget…

The fascinating reason why people change so much after sex.
3 life-saving insights you can get from your partner’s parents.
Why some couples get along better after they divorce.
How to find out before you get married how your partener will be after.
What happens when opposittes attract.
How anyone can solve their own relationship problems in 20 minutes or less (as preposterous as that may sound).
Why do some people pick one kind of person for a friend and another for a lover.
Learn the amazing secrets behind The Selection Test^⃨
Why advanced communication techniques are not enough
And More!

Dear Frustrated Friend,

It’s no secret: most relationships are doomed to fail before they get started.

In fact, did you know for the first time in history, more women than men are being unfaithful in the first decade of their marriages?

Did you also know that ONE in every THREE women has extra-marital sex in the first ten years, compared to every one in every four men.

40% of all partners have at least ONE extramarital affair sometime in their marriages.

And despite these startling facts, singles everywhere continue to search for the magical “Happily-Ever-After” Fairy Tale they so desperately want to believe is possible.

Unfortunately, the promise of “Happily-Ever-After” mysteriously eludes most people over and over and over!

So let me ask you… How Did You Pick Your Mate?

Was it her looks? Was it his sense of humor? Was it his warmth, energy, and enthusiasm? Was she hard to get? Are you still wondering?

Most people are shocked when I tell them that the reason they THINK they selected their mates is very different than why they really did. In fact, why we choose anything—from an ice-ream flavor to the person with whom we plan to spend the rest of our lives—is not a result of what we want but how we’re subconsciously programmed to attract or avoid, select or reject what we “think” we want.

Sound crazy? Then let me ask you: How many times have you been wildly attracted to someone who wasn’t good for you? Or in love with someone you didn’t like? Or maybe you are one of the thousands of people who can’t seem to find the person who’s “just right” for them.

Why You Need This Program…

Why We Pick the Mates We Do is the result of my 26 years as a therapist spent counseling and studying more than 1,000 couples. During this time, I became increasingly convinced that the troubles most couples have after marriage are not just “adjustment problems” but latent personality changes which began as their relationship journeyed from one stage to another. Some universal laments I hear every day about these stages are:

“If I’d had any idea living with her would have been like this, we NEVER would have moved in together!”
“He wasn’t like this when we were just dating!”
“Everything was fine until we had sex.”
“We never should have gotten married, but it’s too late now.”

But it doesn’t have to be like that! The Selection Test^™ is simple and fast. I’ve seen it work hundreds of times in my private sessions and workshops. It has helped countless individuals overcome the fear, anxiety, and endless frustration that have resulted from years of misery-creating choices.

The Selection Test^™ takes the guesswork out of the mating game by predicting what a relationship would be like with a potential partner before you even get involved with that person.

And unlike years of costly therapy, this system is not theoretical or complex… It works predictably and reliably with any person or relationship, married or single. It has worked with all ages, teenagers and the elderly alike, and has proven itself time and again as the most important key to making successful life-mate choices.

Testimonials

“Why We Pick The Mates We Do was a revelation to me. Anne Teachworth has an understanding of the dynamics of relationships that is profound. With this book, I have been able to break the vicious cycle of unhealthy relationships. I now have an ability to create relationships proactively and consciously rather than just “fall” into them. The book is a coaching manual. Her insights are practical and easy to apply to real life situations. Thank you, Anne, for your commitment to people relating in a fulfilling way.”

Perch Ducote, author of the best-selling book: The Soul Of Communication
“Anne is BRILLIANT… She writes and speaks in a very clear, distinct style… and her techniques are nothing short of magical!”

Rebecca Gauthier, Lead Singer of Bachelor Red
“I have long suspected that the traditional psychological view that our adult lives are spent trying to compensate for the unmet needs of our childhood, is only part of the picture. I believe Anne Teachworth’s work is important, because she has discovered some of the missing parts. Through her excellent book you can too. Not only will you find it fascinating, but life changing.”

Paul McKenna, PhD.

“WARNING: Don’t even think about starting another relationship without reading Anne’s book… You could very well save yourself countless thousands in couples counseling and divorce attorney fees!”

Len Foley, author of the best-selling book Sales Without the Sucker Punch!
“The best part of (Anne’s) book is that it demonstrates to the reader not only how to overcome relationship problems, but also how to avoid repeating them in the future… Ms. Teachworth states, with great insight, the only way to help your partner to change is to change yourself first. This, of course, is not easy to do. However, the book does a very good job of facilitating that process.”

Will Mosier, EdD, PA-C, DAPA, in the American Psychotherapy Association Magazine
“Why We Pick the Mates We Do can help repair your love life by re-imprinting positive patterns into your childhood history. Anne Teachworth’s method can ‘magically’ change Frogs into Princes, awaken the sleeping princess, and often make your ‘happily ever after dreams come true.’”

Anne Ancelin Schutzenberger, PhD., TEP, Author of The Ancestor Syndrome

Why We Pick The Mates We Do